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Monday, August 24, 2015

New Rituals for our Femdom Anniversary

If you follow this blog might know that we are an Indian couple where me and my goddess wife Ankita are into Femdom relationship from last 7 months. Ankita just revealed how she wants to celebrate the our femdom lifestyle anniversary. She has many thinks in her mind, but one idea she confirmed about me putting a ring into the finger of her feet by my mouth.
This symbolic gesture would show that I am actually married to her feet. So I must show my love to her by making love with her feet.

Then she will give me blessing by keeping her feet on my head.
Please let me know if you have other suggestions for our femdom anniversary.


Saturday, August 22, 2015

Ultimate respect and pleasure for your femdom wife

Always show immense respect and gratitude towards your superior Goddess wife. Give the well deserve pleasure and service they need to make them relax. Your whole does not worth more than her one day pleasure. So always be selfless while showing your love to her as your life changing mentor and trainer.

If you are a sub-servant wife lover like me, you can see how much respectable and honour to serve your goddes wife's. The guy in this picture is very lucky that her goddess wife thought him as a worthy enough to serve her.

Let me know what all you submissive guys think.

Friday, August 21, 2015

Our Femdom Lifestyle - Part II

Hi friends. This is the second update on our Femdom lifestyle. Ankita doesn't want to have same rituals every week and she continuously alternate weekly rituals, so that she never gets bore. Also let me remind you that we are not only in Femdom, she enjoys BDSM the most, Ever since I introduce it to her. So our Femdom lifestyle also involves BDSM and Sadomasochism. Those who do not know about Sadomasochism. It is a form of BDSM, where one get pleasures from act involving giving or receiving pain , humiliation or degradation to others. Obviously, in this case I am the receiver. We have this session usually in the weekends. At least one day, mostly Saturday is dedicated for this. I will write another post on various ways Ankita humiliates and degrades me. Also, this is the day I receive my quota of my punishments every week from her.

Being my trainer and guardian, Ankita so far taught me the following things:


  • How to cook some common dishes. Although I improved a lot from the time of my training. Ankita is not happy and she will continue to train me to be a perfect cook.
  • How to do all cleaning activity including and not limited to dish washing, house cleaning and bathroom cleaning. She used to dictate what I need to do and how I should do it.
  • How to polish her shoes. It is my daily activity to remove her shoes and put them in their proper place. 
  • How to behave in various situations. While going out, I must carry everything including her ladies bag.
  • How to beg for her blessings to become her Mr. Perfect. Being polite while asking when at her feet.
  • How to beg when I need something i.e, pocket money or some other privileges
  • How to ask permission to enter several places like bedroom. Using main bathroom is strictly no no. I should enter main bathroom by taking her permission, only to clean it before her use.
  • How to massage her feet before waking her up politely.
  • What to do when she want to have sex. I must be naked having my dog leash attached in my neck. I cannot have orgasm without her permission and also cannot express my sexual pleasure while doing it. Because I'm doing it only to please her and not me. She used to pinch my nipple and slap me hard during the intercourse, so that my mind gets diverted and I cannot cum by mistake.
  • She taught me few finger gestures. So that she can control me sometime even without talking or giving order verbally. A downward motion means, I need to be on my knees. Pointing finger at her feet means, she wants me to be at her feet. There are other gestures like "Get the FUCK out from here" and "Start pleasing me orally", or "Get in position for a spank", "Footstool position - So that she can place her leg to rest".

Female Corporal Punishment

Female Corporal Punishment is an act of discipline where the Mistress deliberately inflict pain to correct the submissive male’s behavior. Corporal punishment was a common form of punishment back in history and was usually practiced by justice systems, schools and domestically.



There is a common misconception of corporal punishment as a form of torture. There is a profound difference between the two punishment forms. Although both involve physical pain they serve two different objectives. Torture is usually inflicted in order to break one’s will or for the pure amusement of the dominant party (what is also known as Sadism). Corporal punishment is practiced as a form of discipline in order to correct one’s behavior.

Domestic Discipline in Femdom

To most submissive males, Domestic Discipline is the holy grail of loving Femdom relationship. Living in a household where rules are clearly defined by a superior female authority (the dominant wife) is the core of the Femdom lifestyle and a source of inspiration for most Femdom couples.

In a loving Femdom relationship, domestic discipline stands for hierarchic order within a family using disciplinary acts and punitive measures to enforce the dominant wife’s authority over the submissive male husband. This lifestyle is very real, where couples are making a conscious decision to incorporate discipline and authority into their day to day life.

The boundaries are clearly laid and actions have consequences. Those boundaries are typically enforced by the dominant wife on a 24/7 basis. In some cases, a stern look is all it takes to put the submissive male husband back in line, but occasionally losing a privilege or exercising physical punishment is far more effective in making a point.

Oral Servitude in Femdom Relationship

The best way to serve your goddess wife is by using your tongue. Make her relax and serve until she say you to stop. It is important for the submissive husband in Femdom relationship to always ready to serve his wife orally. When serving her pussy, husband should focus on her satisfaction and pleasure. If you are lucky you can earn her blessings and holy water from her honey pot. Never forget to slurp every drop as reward.

In femdom, only pleasure of the goddess matters the most. Be devoted to your supremo.


Let me know your thoughts.

Perfect Female Led Household

My wife Ankita enjoys her role in this lifestyle and constantly reminds me that without telling a single word. I like the way she enforce everything and shows her authority over me. I cannot believe how much she learnt in past 6 months.
She always search for new things on femdom lifestyle and try to implement if something she thinks interesting. Here is one picture she likes very much. She told me this picture really says thousand words and I perfectly agree with her.

It shows the authority of the wife on her property (hubby). Resting her feet on his shoulder signifies where her husband really belongs, Obviously under his wife's supreme feet.

My wife likes this posture and applied it in many situations, specially when she enjoys TV/ Movie or I give her a foot message or I lick her feet.


Let us know your thoughts and suggestions. Please also let us know what are the rituals you follow in this lifestyle? We really want to get some input from real Indian Femdom couples or Dominant Indian Women.

You should never make your wife angry

You should never make your goddess wife angry. Obey her rules and commands. Never mess with her mood. Be polite and humble when talking and DO NOT raise your voice or glare. A submissive husband always understand his place in femdom relationship. Otherwise mistress will show you that in no time.


Always take your punishments as a learning lesson and blessings to become a good person. But you should try to avoid it. Never make her embarrassed in front of her friends too. That may bring punishments from all goddesses.

Indian Femdom/FLR Marriage Rules


All submissive Indian men and husbands, here I want to present the rules of a true Indian Femdom Marriage or Female Led Relationship for Indians. Those who are starting this lifestyle can use this as a standard template.

Note: Indian Wife and Mistresses can always change these rules as they think fit


INDIAN FEMDOM/FLR MARRIAGE RULES:

 Rules and guidelines for proper slave husband to proper oral servitude :
1.         Your Wife or Girl Friend is your only Guardian in FLR. You become your wife's property immediately after FLR marriage or the time you start FLR. Your wife's mother and siblings have secondary rights on you after your wife. Always Put your wife first. Don't eat until your wife eat. Always fast once or twice in a week for her well being. 

2.         You don't have any dignity or rights in front of your wife in FLR. You must completely surrender yourself and devote your life to her. You must change your surname to your wife's surname to symbolize her ownership.  

3.         Always talk to your wife/girl friend in polite voice. You should always look downward when talking to her. Remember, you can always beg something from her but can not demand. Before asking, kiss her feet or sit near to her feet, touch her leg and then ask politely.

Our Journey to Femdom



Hi friends, Here I want to share with you guys how we are into this lifestyle. I am a submissive man and I always liked BDSM lifestyle. I came across to femdom lifestyle when I saw some graphics art where men are being punished, abused and leashed like an animal by females. I sent an electric through my spine at that time and I got hooked up into femdom where female leading the household and using men as their slaves. But mostly i used to masturbate thinking about femdom and being degraded by a female. I always thought about it as my secret desire just for fun and I would never really want this in my real life.

I got married 2 year 3 months back. It was arrange marriage as I was not dating anyone. My wife Ankita was very confident and bold type of girl and I immediately fell in love once I saw her for the first time.